Dating a woman with a boyfriend
She enjoys the fact that you’re not tainted and broken like many of the men her age. Older women have an extremely sensitive bullshit detector, so be 100% honest all of the time. If you want to have sex with her but don’t want to be her boyfriend, tell her. Believe me when I say your older woman is well aware of the age difference between you. If she brings it up, tell her your heart doesn’t care how old she is.
If she’s flirting with you, take her out as you would any other woman. Your job is to make her feel like a GIRL, not like a friend of your mom’s.
Don’t call him everyday – It may from time to time seem as though the male half of the population hasn’t fully grasped the concept of staying in touch but trust me we know how to call you when you haven’t called us.
If you call constantly to “just check in” then the chances are he’ll feel smothered within a week and will lose interest or just assume you are a bit desperate.
She’d come to the beach for the weekend for the same reason I had: to get laid and have fun.
We literally talked for 20 minutes and then went and had sex.
You don’t need to tell her you’re older than your years, but you do need to act like a man. Yes, she wants you to tell her how hot she is, but she also wants to talk to you over dinner, during a walk, or lying in bed after you’ve made love.
I’m not saying you can’t check out younger women when you’re alone, but when you’re together, this is an absolute no-no.
Nature’s paradox is the sexes have never been aligned properly.
When I was 23, my friend taught me one of life’s greatest lessons: Older women make decisions fast.
It was this that led to my first experience with an older woman.