Dating advice shy boys
• Do an activity: take a class together or do something active, such as riding a bicycle.
This will mean that you will be so ‘in the moment’ that you will not have time to think about how shy you feel.
Now you are ready for the final phase, the “confrontation” phase. In this phase you do whatever it is that you fear, in your case talk to a boy you may be interested in.
One thing you should always remind yourself of when talking to a potential crush is that you don’t really know this person well enough to be losing anything by losing their interest.
Imagine that you are totally at ease dealing with the opposite sex and don’t forget to include lots of smiling and laughing in the fantasy.
After all, it’s supposed to be fun to interact with boys!
Practice on a safe person, a guy friend for instance, and do not psyche yourself out by thinking that it’s easy to talk to a friend but hard to talk to other guys. If you can talk to a guy you consider nothing more than a friend then you can talk to any guy.
People who are shy often unconsciously put up a protective barrier that others easily pick up on.
In order to avoid the thing they most fear shy people often appear aloof and unapproachable to others.
As ironic as it may seem the fact that you are physically attractive may only make things worse.
If you appear unapproachable people won’t try to talk to you, but when you factor in your above average looks that inapproachability becomes intimidating.