Good first question to ask on a dating site

We continued meeting up and for the first 5 times I took it as just sex.Not just sex, but really aggressive, dirty sex and sexual role-playing. I can tell he lusts for me, but given the way this started out I don’t know that there’s a chance any relationship could come out of this.If you want him to connect with you on a deeper level, demonstrate coming from a deeper level.

If you want a relationship, I would encourage you to find ways to connect on a deeper level. If you want him to be more open with you, demonstrate openness.

A turning point came where he started showing another side of himself. I’m not a clingy/needy type of girl and I give him space, but if there were any possibility of this becoming something more I’d like to pursue it.

Yes, a relationship can come from something that started with sex on the first date.

So on the one hand, if you went in there and had sex with virtually no connection established other than some playful, sexy banter and verbal foreplay, that will work against you in terms of being evaluated as a relationship partner.

On the other hand, if you established a profound, deep, meaningful connection first before the sex, then there’s a possibility.

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