No spark keep dating
So, in response to your query about how to tell someone that it’s the lack of chemistry that’s the reason for blowing someone off, how about this novel idea: How about you don’t say anything?
And I will resist all impulses to write my response to in iambic pentameter.
…Listen, all of us have been blown off before and I’d venture to guess that 90% of the time it’s not because you did something “wrong” like cuss out the waiter or refuse to wear pants in the restaurant.Especially since before meeting they think you think they’re great. And if they ask, they can’t be too hurt if you tell. It’s simply not nice, especially since it’s only one person’s opinion. My personal policy has been to NEVER tell a woman what I think is “wrong” with her. That’s how the vast majority of first and second dates go.