Tips dating divorced guy
This guy will need some time to adjust to the idea of a serious relationship. Perhaps you were well-prepared for a few snide remarks or some dirty looks thrown your way. On the other hand, did his ex throw you off kilter by being a complete psycho bitch?
Were the live images of her personality even more terrifying than the ones you imagined?
Now, I’m not saying to spare his feelings because he loved her once and blah blah blah…
You’re not going to talk badly about his ex because you don’t want your relationship with him to be based on how much you both hate her!
My point is, you will be the enemy for a good long while, so enjoy NOT meeting the kids for as long as possible.
Speaking of kids, it’s important not to try too hard when you meet his children.
As a double divorcee, I can tell you that yes, there were times I made a lousy spouse, but there were times I was the perfect wife! My mother always says, “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure,” or, more delicately, just because he wasn’t right for one woman, doesn’t mean he isn’t perfect for you!
Did she make you want to throw something across the room at her oversized head? There are many women out there who find that the ex-wife isn’t always the cool and down-to-earth person they hoped she’d be.
No matter how you feel about his previous squeeze, you can’t let on.
If you’re dating a man who has been divorced, chances are he’s had his heart ripped out by someone he held dear.
That usually means he’s not going to be in any rush to have it happen again.